tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post5975240884467347486..comments2023-11-03T01:28:44.624-07:00Comments on My Masonic Apron: FairMr. Apronhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00176310548094283074noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-67724637047171971192010-06-02T14:00:41.090-07:002010-06-02T14:00:41.090-07:00Sending my love. What a beautifully wrenching way ...Sending my love. What a beautifully wrenching way to put this all out there. You are such a talent — and I am still so sorry. Your mother's right, you know. About so many things. You WILL have a baby. And it WILL be wonderful.<br />And if, by some chance, you never do make more than $30,000-whatever for the rest of your life, you'll get by. And your wife and child will love you no matter what.paige worthyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00326066085038471623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-50415319192281584042010-06-02T06:35:25.146-07:002010-06-02T06:35:25.146-07:00::snif::::snif::Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11931323707488046760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-57215000996142105002010-06-01T22:31:24.786-07:002010-06-01T22:31:24.786-07:00Oh my God, Mr. Apron, I am so sorry. You have ever...Oh my God, Mr. Apron, I am so sorry. You have every right to be down. And you know what, you be down for as long as you please. It will happen but right now when things get super shitty, I believe it is because God is busy working on bringing something bloody grand out to the stage. Don't worry, it's coming. And as always, as your musician friend that you wrote to told you, you're a talented writer. Your blog is good and I am glad it's alive. I am glad you are alive and that you love your wife and I know it will work out for you.Peter's Poisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01512441746836735800noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-36103011468330107772010-06-01T20:48:56.843-07:002010-06-01T20:48:56.843-07:00Thanks for posting this... it's very real. Jus...Thanks for posting this... it's very real. Just because miscarriages are common doesn't make it any less devastating... My mother had a miscarriage before she had my brother and me, and it changed her. She was terrified of getting pregnant again, in case it happened again. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm sorry such a horrible thing happened to you and your wife.Leslie Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04873306614933443547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-52925152264530407352010-06-01T14:52:48.741-07:002010-06-01T14:52:48.741-07:00I'm sorry to hear about the miscarriage. It&#...I'm sorry to hear about the miscarriage. It's awful. While we haven't had that experience, I understand the anger towards someone else who has something that you want and they don't even seem to care. It's so frustrating and you get upset because you feel like you shouldn't be mad at them, but you are. There's nothing that can be said or done that will make it any better except time.Who? Me?https://www.blogger.com/profile/18415994055774024826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-22026173560762266182010-06-01T10:17:40.206-07:002010-06-01T10:17:40.206-07:00I am so, so, sorry. I had no idea.
And here I t...I am so, so, sorry. I had no idea. <br /><br />And here I thought you were sad because I am an email procrastinator.Collhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14152529375121423592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-47038463729664691452010-06-01T10:04:32.513-07:002010-06-01T10:04:32.513-07:00Aww. I adore you both so much. I would hug you two...Aww. I adore you both so much. I would hug you two, if I could.<br /><br />I only have one thing to say about the whole thing...<br /><br />You have every right to be angry. You have every right to hate your sister. Your feelings are perfectly normal and valid and logical and right, and I only wish that the world was like your feelings.<br /><br />I hate married people sometimes. I hate watching a girl lay her head over a guy's heart and let his breath and heartbeat calm her. I hate watching some stupid bitch treat her husband like shit in the grocery store. I hate hearing about engagements and weddings and pregnancies. I hate listening to people talk about what they're doing with their spouses over the weekend. I hate watching dumb whores destroy good marriages because they aren't getting enough attention. I hate watching man after man after man walk away from me because they just don't get it, and I hate the truth that I will never be as happy as I could be until someone DOES get it.<br /><br />So. You are normal and perfect and rightfully angry and outraged. If God gave people what they deserved, I would have an awesome husband, you and your wife and me and my awesome husband would have the cutest smartest babies ever born, and your middle sister would have herpes on her face.<br /><br />love and kisses and hugs to you both.<br /><br />xoxoverybadcathttp://cattails.menoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-32157066043310265162010-06-01T08:02:51.100-07:002010-06-01T08:02:51.100-07:00You are hilarious and real and raw all rolled up i...You are hilarious and real and raw all rolled up into one and I like your blog a lot.JMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07134352109934878739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-78854343804968645312010-06-01T07:43:37.051-07:002010-06-01T07:43:37.051-07:00I definitely feel you on the job leads. My husband...I definitely feel you on the job leads. My husband's job ends in a few short months too, and he's shaking his head at all the education he busted his butt for, just to work for $11.25 an hour with the likes of Dwight K. Schrute in a temporary office. What else can he do but go back to school? I think a lot of people are in that position right now. And it sucks. Balls.<br /><br />I'm so sorry for you and your wife's loss. I have a few friends struggling with the anger and depression after a miscarriage, and I feel their pain as though it were my own. Ditto to what Shinxy said - take care of each other.Suziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00966167941854407869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-3432274773457570542010-06-01T06:51:23.713-07:002010-06-01T06:51:23.713-07:00Not much I could say here that would mean much, bu...Not much I could say here that would mean much, but I almost cried.<br /><br />Horribly sad story, but great post.Margarethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12160018811890720052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6740538823923443635.post-8716723190209280772010-06-01T05:15:21.713-07:002010-06-01T05:15:21.713-07:00I knew you were depressed, kitten. I could tell in...I knew you were depressed, kitten. I could tell in your writing.<br /><br />I am so sorry you have suffered, and are still suffering, from a miscarriage. I had one a couple of years ago too, with Mewtwo. Sure, it wasn't planned. But I so wanted that baby. And I still do, deep down, even though I say I don't want children right now.<br /><br />It's hard. And every few months, it will pop out of the blue and upset you for a while. I know I don't need to tell you how painful 'what if?'s can be.<br /><br />And the hardest part is watching friends (or in your case, family. Or in my case, a sworn enemy) having babies and taking it for granted, or taking advantage of people because of it.<br /><br />But you have to remember that at least you still have each other. And you can try again. And, you know, it might not work out that time either. But there is hope. Hope that one day it won't hurt this bad. <br /><br />I don't know how long ago yours was, but it does get easier, bit by bit. You will have your bad days, your bad weeks, but they pass.<br /><br />I wish you all the best, I really do. I know how hard it can be on days like this. I happen to be having one of my 'days' too. <br /><br />The best advice I can give is to take care of each other. Mewtwo and I weren't lucky enough to do that due to him being military and two states away, and that made it all the much harder.<br /><br />Please, do take care. I'll be thinking of you.<br /><br />xoxoShinxyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14678735538772816049noreply@blogger.com